'तारक मेहता'मधील बबितावर लैंगिक छळाची आपबीती

छाया सौजन्य : मुनमुनस्टार इन्स्टाग्राम पेज

मुंबई : 'तारक मेहता का उल्टा चष्मा' या टीव्ही  मालिकेमधून घराघरात पोहोचलेल्या बबिता अर्थात मुनमुन दत्ता हिच्यावर लैंगिक छळाची आपबीती ओढवली होती. ही माहिती खुद्द तिनेच सोशल मीडियाच्या माध्यमातून पुढे आणलेय.  तिने आपबीतीची माहिती 'इन्स्टाग्राम'वर पोस्ट केलेय.

दरम्यान, महिलांनी त्यांच्यावर झालेल्या अन्यायाला वाचा फोडण्यासाठी हॉलिवूड अभिनेत्री एलिसा मिलानो हिने सोशल मीडियावर #MeToo नावाचे कॅम्पेन सुरु केलेय. त्यानंतर 'तारक मेहता' फेम बबिताने आपल्यावर झालेल्या अन्यायाची वाचा फोडलेय.

मुनमुनने #MeToo हा हॅशटॅग वापरत पोस्ट केलेय, 'मी पाहात आहे की #MeToo हॅशटॅग वापरून महिलांनी सांगितलेल्या आपबीतीमुळे आपल्या आजुबाजूचे पुरुष त्रस्त झाले आहेत. मात्र त्रस्त होऊ नका हे तुमच्या आजूबाजूलाही होत आहे. तुमच्या घरात, बहिणीसोबत, मुलीसोबत, आईसोबत आणि पत्नीसोबतही होत आहे. एवढेच नाही तर तुमच्या नोकराणीसोबतही ते झाले आहे.  

मुनमुन आपल्यावर झालेल्या लहानपणीच्या अन्यायाची थेट माहिती दिलेय. माझ्या शेजारी राहणारे काका मला मुद्दाम जोरदार मिठी मारायचे. मी काही कोणाला सांगू नये म्हणून ते मला धमकी द्यायचे. माझ्यापेक्षा मोठे असणारी मामाची मुलं अश्लिल इशारे कराचीत. माझ्या जन्माच्या वेळी रुग्णालयात येऊन मला पाहणाऱ्या एका व्यक्तीने मी १३ वर्षाची झाल्यानंतर चुकीच्या पद्धतीने हात लावले होते.

#MeToo ...... Yes .... #Metoo ..... Sharing a post like this and joining the global awareness on sexual assaults on women all over the world and showing solidarity to each and every woman who sailed on the same boat , shows the magnitude of the problem. M surprised that some 'good ' men are shocked to see the number of women who have come out and shared their #metoo experiences. NO DON'T BE. This is happening in your own backyard, in your own house, with your own sister, daughter , mother, wife or even your maid ... Gain their trusts and ask them. You will be surprised at their answers.. You will be surprised with their stories.. Writing something like this brings me to tears reliving those memories as a little girl when I was scared of the neighbourhood uncle and his prying eyes who at any given opportunity would grope me and threaten me not to speak about this to anyone ..... OR my much older cousins who would eye me differently than their own daughters .... OR the man who saw me at the hospital when I was born and 13 years later he thought it's appropriate for him to touch my body because I was a growing teenager and my body had changed.... OR my tuition teacher who had his hands in my underpants ....... OR this another teacher , whom I tied Rakhi to, would scold the female students in the class by pulling their bra straps and slapping on their breasts .... . OR that man in the train station who gropes U ... Why ?? Because you're too young and scared to speak up. So scared that you can feel your stomach getting twisted inside and throat getting choked up ... you don't know how are you going to explain it to your parents or you're too shy to utter a word to anyone .... And then you start developing that deep rooted hatred towards men ... Because you know they're the culprit who made you feel this way.. That disgusting, twisted feeling inside which takes years to overcome .... M happy to be another voice joining this movement and make people realise that I was not spared either. But TODAY I will rip apart any man who even remotely tries anything on me. I AM PROUD OF WHO I AM ..

A post shared by MUNMUN DUTTA (@mmoonstar) on Oct 24, 2017 at 10:17pm PDT